A Breeders Frustration
This entry was posted on 3/10/2006 2:58 PM and is filed under Ethics and Integrity Matters.
My friend Andrea wrote me about the blog idea saying she thinks it will be therapeutic for me. Perhaps she is right. And Andrea is very knowledgeable about something that is eating at me. In fact, she lives with the subject dog. Let me tell you a story....
I obtained a dog from a breeder to enhance my breeding program. I liked the pedigree and I love the people who were doing this breeding. I was thrilled with the FABULOUS puppy I got from them. THRILLED! I was so in love with her. She has such a great personality, she's funny and she is BEAUTIFUL! But guess what folks... she seizes. At eight months of age, she had BIG seizures that went on for two days and we had a heck of a time getting them stopped. Then more big news. A littermate brother seized too about the same time and he is deceased because of it.
We never slandered the stud dog owner, owners of the dogs that produced that male, nor the breeder of her bitch. They did not invent this. We did however believe that it was of the utmost importance to share what we knew with these folks so they were able to learn from this knowledge and adjust their breeding plans accordingly because responsible breeders want to know. The breeder of the dam's response was appropriate reflecting concern and interest in the details. However, the response of the stud dog owner and the owner of his sire response was revolting. They said that I was conspiring against them! (I think that is their excuse for not taking responsibility and for continuing to use these dogs without regard!) Now let me tell you that I do not know anyone that would do this to a dog for the detriment of another and I surely do not waste my time conspiring against anyone. It does not promote excellence and that is my mission which I am firmly committed to. I never slandered them. In fact it was a well kept secret! If I were conspiring would I not be enjoying publicly strangling them?
So here is a question for you readers..... what do you do when you find that someone will not be honorable? Do you force them to be accountable? If so, how? I am not going to slander anyone but I DO know the facts and the facts I am clear on.
Next question- when people call and ask how to find a good breeder in their area... what do I tell them when the marketing by these folks is a big bunch of talk and terribly compelling!? I am not willing to single people out as that just sounds like sour grapes and isn't what I want to do. It is such a dilemma!
Had these people contacted either the breeder of my pup or myself and showed concern I would have trusted they cared enough not to take unreasonable risks with these dogs, but how can you trust someone that has this response? And BTW, this behavior is no different than the history of their actions towards others that proceeds this event.
I will be very interested in seeing what others think.
Oh.. and my friend Andrea... I gave her the dog and they love her. She is fully aware that she will probably not live a full life and her heart will be broken when that day comes, but in the meantime she has a WONDERFUL home on a farm with a family that choses to enjoy her every day until forever. You can see her on the website
http://www.gotgoaties.com . Thank you Andrea. Your care for my baby DeeDee is something I will never be able to repay and I am forever grateful.